Wasil Abdal (@wasil_abdal) asked whether self-hosting is actually worth it β his argument: the hidden time costs (3am debugging, SSL maintenance, backup failures) make the savings illusory unless compliance forces your hand.
Stan Kolotinskiy pushed back hard. His counter: a β¬35 VPS is cheaper than EC2, and Let's Encrypt isn't a real problem in 2026. His sharper point was that some builders enjoy the infrastructure work β which means the cost-vs-savings framing misses the point entirely. Alper Tayfur synthesized it: "Self-hosting makes sense only when control is the product requirement."
Shyun Bill's line cut the other way: "Managed hosting buys your freedom back."
Good thread if you've been running your own servers and trying to decide whether it's discipline or just a sunk-cost habit at this point.